You and your partner have finally zeroed in on a wedding date. Cross it off your to-do list, breathe in and start assessing what you need for the big day.
Weddings preface a very special chapter in your life, so feeling excited, panicked and simultaneously tense is completely normal. Not to mention, the shopping wish list keeps multiplying. Everyone understands that planning ahead is the way to go – helps you stay within budget, too – but, where to begin?
Gulf News took a glimpse into the Amazon checklist of a Dubai-based bride-to-be. Grab a pen and paper before you dive in, because a bride’s shopping list is a lengthy one. It will typically cover pre-wedding prep (think skincare, make-up and gifts) and post-ceremony travel plans, where you might want to squeeze in honeymoon essentials.
Filipino-Pakistani expat Zareen Shah is expecting a November wedding in 2022. Under clear autumnal skies and crisp air, Shah, 40, and her husband will celebrate the signing of their Islamic marriage – or ‘nikah’ as it’s referred to in Arabic, which is already complete – with a traditional Pakistani wedding ceremony. Shah is halfway through the preparations, with four months to go.
“I’m an avid online shopper, so even when I order internationally from Amazon, I’m used to things taking time… about a week or two,” said Shah, who is also a Prime member and takes advantage of next-day local deliveries. “Amazon is my go-to for essentials and household needs, since items come in fairly quickly.”
A bride's shopping list
The self-employed make-up artist ranks skincare high on her bridal essentials list. “The first step is skincare for any bride-to-be, because there is only so much a make-up artist can do. In order for you to look amazing on the day, your skin has to look its best, and it’s not an overnight thing – it’s a journey. I would say start taking care of your skin three months prior,” she said.
Shah’s strict skincare regime includes anti-ageing products, like collagen powder and creams, which help to reduce wrinkles and hydrate the skin. “I take a scoop of the collagen powder with a glass of water daily. And, the ELEMIS’ Pro-Collagen day and night creams instantly transform your skin. You can visibly see and feel the change within two weeks,” recommended Shah.
Sports Research Grass-Fed Collagen Peptides Powder (16 oz)
Elemis Pro-Collagen Marine Cream SPF 30, 50ml
ELEMIS Pro-Collagen Oxygenating Night Cream, 1.6 Fl Oz
Next up is a reliable sunscreen that offers sufficient protection from ultraviolet rays, regardless of the summer or winter sun. When shopping for an SPF (Sun Protection Factor) cream, often the first question that comes up is: Does it leave a white cast? Shah’s tried-and-tested Supergoop! Unseen Sunscreen doesn’t – it has a clear formula.
Supergoop! Unseen Sunscreen SPF 40, 1.7 oz
The bride-to-be also applies face masks at least once a week for the ultimate skin pampering. “I really like these face masks from a Korean skincare brand called Erborian. The sheet masks are perfect for helping the skin look super smooth and hydrated,” she added.
The same facial products and accessories, from masks to spa headbands, can make great gift sets for your bridesmaids, if you’re customising these. Shah has already envisioned the perfect skincare and beauty kit for her closest friends. It would also include her favourite Maybelline New York’s lip gloss with hyaluronic acid in the shade Stone: “It’s the perfect day gloss. I’d get one for each of my bridesmaids because it suits anyone.”
Erborian Ginseng Shot Mask for Women 0.5 oz Mask, White, 15 g
3-Pack Spa Facial Headbands
Maybelline New York Lifter Gloss With Hyaluronic Acid, 08 Stone
ROSEGLD 30 Gift Boxes 9.5x6.5x4 Inches
As we wade into the cosmetics territory, Shah dishes out expert advice, since she plans on doing her own bridal make-up. “You’ll be going out for dinner or reception after the wedding, so you want your make-up to stay on for longer. A bridal setting spray is very important. Try the Skindinavia Bridal Makeup Finishing Spray – this is one of the first brands that created setting sprays,” she said.
Equally important is a touch up powder, says Shah, for blotting out face oil throughout the lengthy affair. She picks the It Cosmetics’ Bye Bye Pores powder that “instantly removes any appearance of pores, removes any shine or excess oil and helps keep your make-up look exactly the same”.
Skindinavia The Makeup Finishing Spray, Bridal, 236 ml
It Cosmetics Bye Bye Pores Poreless Finish Airbrush Pressed Powder (0.31oz)
Shah also lists her favourite bridal eyeshadow palette and false lashes. Tarte’s warm Toasted palette has 12 matte and shimmer colours in peach to tan shades. Shah said: "It's easy to build up natural looks with for the day and has beautiful smoky shades for nights out."
The Red Cherry falsies are a stackable lightweight wonder. "These are as light as feathers and can be stacked up as a double lash for more volume. They're perfect to wear on your big day as they won't make your eyes feel heavy," said Shah.
Tarte Tartelette™ Toasted Eyeshadow Palette
Red Cherry 213 False Eyelashes (Pack of 6 Pairs)
If you have a honeymoon destination planned, consider travel bag essentials, too, like the Haus Laboratories’ lip liner set and Etude’s daily lip stain. "Carry long-lasting lip stains in your bag, so that you don't have to keep reapplying when out and about," she added.
HAUS LABORATORIES by Lady Gaga: RIP LIP LINER SET, Lip Liner 6-Piece Set
ETUDE Fixing Tint 4g
Can’t book a last-minute appointment with your nail technician? Shah suggests press-on nails for the busy bee bride. Her pick is the KISS Salon acrylic nails in nude, a classy French manicure set, for backup or for holidays. While you’re at it, snag a traditional jewellery set from Amazon, where retailers like Aheli offer affordable options in their collections.
KISS Salon Acrylic Nude French Nails
Aheli Elegant Indian Wedding Jewelry
Aheli Bridal Kundan Faux Pearl Choker Necklace with Earrings
Bridal make-up tends to be thicker and heavier in application than most party looks. You will need a gentle cleanser to get it all off, by the end of the day, with little to no irritation. Shah swears by the Bioderma micellar water:
BIODERMA Sensibio H2O Make Up Removing Micellar Water, 500ml
Planning a pre-wedding function at home? A henna night is the perfect occasion to spend some quality time with those near and dear to you and your partner. Add light and warmth to the entry way with these safe LED candles of varying heights, says Shah.
Flameless Candles Battery Operated Candles, Set of 9
Flameless Votive Candles, Pack of 24
But, amidst all the hustle and bustle that comes with planning a wedding, don’t forget to capture the chaos and fun. A professional photography crew will seldom catch your candid moments with loved ones. “Polaroid cameras are so fun to have. I’d take pictures of these mini moments of my friends and family during the day for keepsakes. Polaroids have this vintage feel to them, too, and they’re instant, so you can snap away and put them on your fridge later,” said Shah.
“You can never go wrong with Fuji. I love this particular model as it’s not as bulky as most Polaroid cameras, and I love the Terracotta orange that it comes in.”
Instax SQUARE SQ1 Instant Camera, Terracotta Orange
Once the wedding festivities end and it's time to wind down, there's likely a comfy pyjama set calling the bride's name. Shah looks forward to winding down in satin sleepwear, preferably with a matching eye mask and hair scrunchie. Her pick gives you the combination of a camisole plus shorts, or a pair of full-length pants and a long sleeve shirt in 14 colours.
LYANER Women's Pajamas Set
Now, for some final words of advice from one soon-to-be bride to another: “Plan everything – make sure you have your photographers, make-up artists and bakers booked at least three months in advance. Once you’ve paid the deposit and they’re booked for certain, you can move on to booking the venue.
“I also think it’s very important to have one key person with you, a best friend who is always on call, through your wedding prep. And, on the day, learn not to sweat the small stuff. Direct the small matters to someone else,” said Shah.
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