Jeddah: On the corner couch of a spacious room, a woman wearing a brightly patterned robe sits expectantly.
The red hijab that covers her hair is reflected in a glass-fronted cabinet; inside, a framed photograph of her firstborn son takes pride of place between family heirlooms and valuables.
A smiling, bearded figure wearing a military jacket, he features in photographs around the room: propped against the wall at her feet, resting on a mantlepiece. A supper of Saudi meze and a lemon cheesecake has been spread out on a large wooden dining table.
Alia Ganem is Osama Bin Laden’s mother, and she commands the attention of everyone in the room.
On chairs nearby sit two of her surviving sons, Ahmad and Hassan, and her second husband, Mohammed Al Attas, the man who raised all three brothers.
Everyone in the family has their own story to tell about the man linked to the rise of global terrorism; but it is Ganem who holds court today, describing a man who is, to her, still a beloved son who somehow lost his way.
“My life was very difficult because he was so far away from me,” she says, speaking confidently. “He was a very good kid and he loved me so much.”
Now in her mid-70s and in variable health, Ganem points at Al Attas – a lean, fit man dressed, like his two sons, in an immaculately pressed white thobe, a gown worn by men across the Arabian peninsula. “He raised Osama from the age of three. He was a good man, and he was good to Osama.”
The family have gathered in a corner of the mansion they now share in Jeddah, the Saudi city that has been home to the Bin Laden clan for generations. They remain one of the kingdom’s wealthiest families.
The Bin Laden home reflects their fortune and influence, a large spiral staircase at its centre leading to cavernous rooms. Ramadan has come and gone, and the bowls of dates and chocolates that mark the three-day festival that follows it sit on tabletops throughout the house.
Large manors line the rest of the street; this is well-to-do Jeddah, and while no guard stands watch outside, the Bin Ladens are the neighbourhood’s best-known residents.
For years, Ganem has refused to talk about Osama, as has his wider family — throughout his two-decade reign as Al Qaida leader, a period that saw the strikes on New York and Washington DC, and ended more than nine years later with his death in Pakistan .
Now, Saudi Arabia’s new leadership — spearheaded by Crown Prince Mohammad Bin Salman — has agreed to my request to speak to the family. (As one of the country’s most influential families, their movements and engagements remain closely monitored.) Osama’s legacy is as grave a blight on the kingdom as it is on his family, and senior officials believe that, by allowing the Bin Ladens to tell their story, they can demonstrate that an outcast was responsible for 9/11.
Unsurprisingly, Osama Bin Laden’s family are cautious in our initial negotiations; they are not sure whether opening old wounds will prove cathartic or harmful. But after several days of discussion, they are willing to talk. When we meet on a hot day in early June, a minder from the Saudi government sits in the room, though she makes no attempt to influence the conversation. (We are also joined by a translator.)
Sitting between Osama’s half-brothers, Ganem recalls her firstborn as a shy boy who was academically capable. He became a strong, driven, pious figure in his early 20s, she says, while studying economics at King Abdul Aziz University in Jeddah, where he was also radicalised.
“The people at university changed him,” Ganem says. “He became a different man.”
One of the men he met there was Abdullah Azzam, a member of the Muslim Brotherhood who was later exiled from Saudi Arabia and became Osama’s spiritual adviser.
“He was a very good child until he met some people who pretty much brainwashed him in his early 20s. You can call it a cult."
'He loved me so much'
"They got money for their cause. I would always tell him to stay away from them, and he would never admit to me what he was doing, because he loved me so much.”
In the early 1980s, Osama travelled to Afghanistan to fight the Russian occupation.
A long uncomfortable silence follows, as Hassan struggles to explain the transformation from zealot to global terrorist.
“I am very proud of him in the sense that he was my oldest brother,” he eventually continues. “He taught me a lot. But I don’t think I’m very proud of him as a man. He reached superstardom on a global stage, and it was all for nothing.”
Ganem listens intently, becoming more animated when the conversation returns to Osama’s formative years.
“He was very straight. Very good at school. He really liked to study. He spent all his money on Afghanistan — he would sneak off under the guise of family business.”
Did she ever suspect he might become a terrorist?
“It never crossed my mind.”
How did it feel when she realised he had?
“We were extremely upset. I did not want any of this to happen. Why would he throw it all away like that?”
The family say they last saw Osama in Afghanistan in 1999, a year in which they visited him twice at his base just outside Kandahar.
“It was a place near the airport that they had captured from the Russians,” Ganem says.
“He was very happy to receive us. He was showing us around every day we were there. He killed an animal and we had a feast, and he invited everyone.”
Ganem begins to relax, and talks about her childhood in the coastal Syrian city of Latakia, where she grew up in a family of Alawites. Syrian cuisine is superior to Saudi, she says, and so is the weather by the Mediterranean, where the warm, wet summer air was a stark contrast to the acetylene heat of Jeddah in June.
Ganem moved to Saudi Arabia in the mid-1950s, and Osama was born in Riyadh in 1957.
She divorced his father three years later, and married Al Attas, then an administrator in the fledgling Bin Laden empire, in the early 1960s. Osama’s father went on to have 54 children with at least 11 wives.
When Ganem leaves to rest in a nearby room, Osama’s half-brothers continue the conversation. It’s important, they say, to remember that a mother is rarely an objective witness.
“It has been 17 years now [since 9/11] and she remains in denial about Osama,” Ahmad says.
“She loved him so much and refuses to blame him. Instead, she blames those around him. She only knows the good boy side, the side we all saw. She never got to know the terrorist side.
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“I was shocked, stunned,” he says now of the early reports from New York.
We felt ashamed of him
“It was a very strange feeling. We knew from the beginning [that it was Osama], within the first 48 hours.
"From the youngest to the eldest, we all felt ashamed of him. We knew all of us were going to face horrible consequences. Our family abroad all came back to Saudi.”
They had been scattered across Syria, Lebanon, Egypt and Europe.
“In Saudi, there was a travel ban. They tried as much as they could to maintain control over the family.”
The family say they were all questioned by the authorities and, for a time, prevented from leaving the country.
Nearly two decades on, the Bin Ladens can move relatively freely within and outside the kingdom.
Two Bin ladens
I meet Prince Turki Al Faisal, who was the head of Saudi intelligence for 24 years, between 1977 and September 1, 2001 (10 days before the 9/11 attacks), at his villa in Jeddah.
An erudite man now in his mid-70s, he wears green cufflinks bearing the Saudi flag on the sleeves of his thobe. “There are two Osama Bin Ladens,” he tells me.
“One before the end of the Soviet occupation of Afghanistan, and one after it. Before, he was very much an idealistic mujahid. He was not a fighter. By his own admission, he fainted during a battle, and when he woke up, the Soviet assault on his position had been defeated.”
As Bin Laden moved from Afghanistan to Sudan, and as his links to Saudi Arabia soured, it was Al Faisal who spoke with him on behalf of the kingdom.
Bin Laden had taken a small part of the family fortune with him to Afghanistan, which he used to buy influence.
When he returned to Jeddah, emboldened by battle and the Soviet defeat, he was a different man, Al Faisal says.
“He developed a more political attitude from 1990. He wanted to evict the communists and South Yemeni Marxists from Yemen. I received him, and told him it was better that he did not get involved. The mosques of Jeddah were using the Afghan example.”
By this, Al Faisal means the narrowly defined reading of the faith espoused by the Taliban.
“He was inciting them [Saudi worshippers]. He was told to stop.”
“He had a poker face,” Al Faisal continues.
“He never grimaced, or smiled. In 1992, 1993, there was a huge meeting in Peshawar organised by Nawaz Sharif’s government.”
Bin Laden had by this point been given refuge by Afghan tribal leaders.
“There was a call for Muslim solidarity, to coerce those leaders of the Muslim world to stop going at each other’s throats. I also saw him there. Our eyes met, but we didn’t talk.
"He didn’t go back to the kingdom. He went to Sudan, where he built a honey business and financed a road.”
Bin Laden’s advocacy increased in exile.
“He used to fax statements to everybody. He was very critical. There were efforts by the family to dissuade him — emissaries and such — but they were unsuccessful. It was probably his feeling that he was not taken seriously by the government.”
By 1996, Bin Laden was back in Afghanistan.
Al Faisal says the kingdom knew it had a problem and wanted him returned. He flew to Kandahar to meet with the then head of the Taliban, Mullah Omar.
“He said, ‘I am not averse to handing him over, but he was very helpful to the Afghan people.’ He said Bin Laden was granted refuge according to Islamic dictates.”
A changed man
Two years later, in September 1998, Al Faisal flew again to Afghanistan, this time to be robustly rebuffed.
“At that meeting, he was a changed man,” he says of Omar.
“Much more reserved, sweating profusely. Instead of taking a reasonable tone, he said, ‘How can you persecute this worthy man who dedicated his life to helping Muslims?’”
Al Faisal says he warned Omar that what he was doing would harm the people of Afghanistan, and left.
The family visit to Kandahar took place the following year, and came after a US missile strike on one of Bin Laden’s compounds — a response to Al Qaida attacks on US embassies in Tanzania and Kenya .
It seems an entourage of immediate family had little trouble finding their man, where the Saudi and western intelligence networks could not.
Driving a wedge
According to officials in Riyadh, London and Washington DC, Bin Laden had by then become the world’s number one counter-terrorism target, a man who was bent on using Saudi citizens to drive a wedge between eastern and western civilisations.
“There is no doubt that he deliberately chose Saudi citizens for the 9/11 plot,” a British intelligence officer tells me.
“He was convinced that was going to turn the west against his adopted home country. He did indeed succeed in inciting a war, but not the one he expected.”
Al Faisal claims that in the months before 9/11, his intelligence agency knew that something troubling was being planned.
“In the summer of 2001, I took one of the warnings about something spectacular about to happen to the Americans, British, French and Arabs. We didn’t know where, but we knew that something was being brewed.”
What remains of Bin Laden’s immediate family, meanwhile, has been allowed back into the kingdom: at least two of his wives (one of whom was with him in Abbottabad when he was killed by US special forces) and their children now live in Jeddah.
“We had a very good relationship with Mohammad Bin Nayef [the former crown prince],” Osama’s half-brother Ahmad tells me as a maid sets the nearby dinner table.
“He let the wives and children return.” But while they have freedom of movement inside the city, they cannot leave the kingdom.
Ganem rejoins the conversation. “I speak to his harem most weeks,” she says. “They live nearby.”
I ask the family about Bin Laden’s youngest son, 29-year-old Hamza, who is thought to be in Afghanistan.
Last year, he was officially designated a “global terrorist” by the US and appears to have taken up the mantle of his father, under the auspices of Al Qaida’s new leader, and Bin Laden’s former deputy, Ayman Al Zawahiri.
*An old picture of Hamza bin Laden, Osama's son
His uncles shake their heads.
“We thought everyone was over this,” Hassan says. “Then the next thing I knew, Hamza was saying, ‘I am going to avenge my father.’ I don’t want to go through that again. If Hamza was in front of me now, I would tell him, ‘God guide you. Think twice about what you are doing. Don’t retake the steps of your father. You are entering horrible parts of your soul.’”
Hamza Bin Laden’s continued rise may well cloud the family’s attempts to shake off their past.
-Guardian News & Media Ltd, 2018