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US singer-songwriter Billie Eilish (L) and Finneas O'Connell pose in the press room with the awards for Album Of The Year, Record Of The Year, Best New Artist, Song Of The Year and Best Pop Vocal Album during the 62nd Annual Grammy Awards on January 26, 2020, in Los Angeles. Image Credit: AFP

The December morning that Grammy nominations were announced, Finneas O’Connell woke up early. The 22-year-old had produced and co-written all the tracks on ‘When We All Fall Asleep, Where Do We Go?’ the debut full-length by his sister, Billie Eilish.

That album helped establish Eilish, now 18, as one of pop’s brightest and biggest new stars in 2019, which also made O’Connell one of the most sought-after producers. The idea that at least one of the siblings might be nominated for a Grammy Award didn’t seem out of reach.

O’Connell wanted to wait until his girlfriend was awake so they could hear the news together, but it was 5.30am and he felt bad waking her up. His phone was erupting with texts that he refused to look at, but he figured the sheer volume of messages was a good sign. “I figured they wouldn’t text me if it was like, ‘We’ll get ‘em next time,’” says O’Connell, who goes by Finneas. (Or, sometimes, FINNEAS.)

Eilish wound up with six nominations, and Finneas with five, including album of the year, record and song of the year for the hit ‘Bad Guy’ (which he co-wrote), and producer of the year (non-classical). They dominated the awards on Sunday night.

Finneas O'Connell performs onstage during the 62nd Annual GRAMMY Awards at Staples Center on January 26, 2020 in Los Angeles, California. Image Credit: AFP

A few weeks after that nominations morning, Finneas is sitting in a coffee shop in the Los Feliz section of Los Angeles, the upscale neighbourhood where he just bought a house, and he still can’t believe it — even though he can actually kind of believe it. He’s at that place, in the late-early stages of fame, where everything good seems possible and nothing too calamitous or traumatising or weird has happened. He’s genuinely open and friendly, and appears to go unrecognised by everyone but Shakey Graves, a musician friend he runs into on the street.

In October, Finneas released ‘Blood Harmony,’ a seven-song EP that was mostly cobbled together in dressing rooms and tour bus lounges and hotel rooms when he was on the road with Eilish. It’s a sleek, striking work, poppier and more linear than ‘When We All Fall Asleep.’

In its own offhand way ‘Blood Harmony’ is more commercial, though it doesn’t need to be. His sister’s success has changed the topography of Finneas’ life in almost every conceivable way. Mostly, it has freed him. He can make any kind of music he wants and never needs to have a hit in his life. He can take or leave the parts of fame he doesn’t want, unlike his sister, who is stuck with all of it.

Billie Eilish, left, and her brother Finneas O'Connell perfrom live on stage at the 2020 Spotify Best New Artist Party at The Lot Studios on Thursday, Jan. 23, 2020, in West Hollywood, Calif. Image Credit: Willy Sanjuan/Invision/AP

“She walks around, and because there’s a billboard of her face on Sunset Boulevard, people really recognise her,” he says. “In my perfect world, I get to be a professional musician and still go to Trader Joe’s.”

For celebrities in Los Angeles, being able to go to Trader Joe’s is the ultimate dividing line, like still being able to take the subway is for celebrities in New York. Eilish usually needs security to go anywhere.

“I think she does really well with it, and she’s very deserving of the adulation that her supporters give her,” Finneas says. “I’m maybe a little less cut out for that level of white hot, kids-chasing-you-through-an-airport, ‘Hard Day’s Night’-level stuff.”

Finneas grew up in the Highland Park area, where his parents were working actors who taught their children at home (there were two bedrooms; they co-slept). They were, and are, close. Each member of the family speaks with obvious affection about every other member of the family, especially Finneas for Eilish.

“We have never put any kind of emphasis on getting a job and making a living,” says his father, Patrick. “If we modelled anything, it was being broke and artsy.”

US songwriter Finneas O'Connell and girlfriend Claudia Sulewski arrive for the 62nd Annual Grammy Awards on January 26, 2020, in Los Angeles. Image Credit: AFP

When Finneas was 12, he attended a songwriting class taught by his mother Maggie Baird, a musician in her own right. At 18, he wrote a song for the Slightlys called ‘Ocean Eyes.’ In that early incarnation, “it sounded a lot like Soundgarden,” he says. “It was a big, soaring electric guitar and drum record. It was the wrong outfit for that song.”

‘Ocean Eyes’ wound up being right for Eilish. They worked on the track together — Finneas produced and wrote it, Eilish sang it. In November 2015, they posted the song, by then a disassembled, darkly evocative ballad, to SoundCloud and watched as it started to find an audience.

“The best part about it was it was such baby steps, comparatively,” Finneas says. “The first night was a thousand streams, and we were like, ‘Oh my God!’ Then a week later, it was 10,000, two weeks later it was a hundred thousand. They weren’t Bieber YouTube numbers, where you’d put up a Justin Timberlake cover and you’d get 15 million. We appreciated every step of the way.”

Finneas enlisted a manager he knew, and Eilish began talking to record labels. In many stories, this is where things would begin to break apart, where the prospect of money and fame could have ruined everything. But Finneas and Eilish, who grew up close and were still stuck living together, had almost no choice but to carry on as a team. Finneas accompanied Eilish to meetings, and they’d talk about it on the way home. They had a management team who was invested in their joint success, which helped.

Finneas has also begun to ramp up his work for other artists. He co-produced Selena Gomez’s hit ‘Lose You to Love Me’ and some new tracks for Swedish pop singer Tove Lo. Finneas worked on several songs on Camila Cabello’s new album, ‘Romance.’

He has been working on a full-length debut album of his own for what seems to him like forever. ‘Blood Harmony’ was hard enough to put together, but an album has to be a statement of purpose, and it’s been slower going than he’d hoped.

He’ll be with Eilish when she tours the world this year, working on the album in his spare moments. While it’s not something he takes for granted, the longer they work together, the more it feels to him like a partnership that could last. Eilish might take a bigger role in the production of her work going forward, he thinks. Everything else they’ll figure out as they go along.

“It’s me being of service to whatever she needs,” he says. “Whenever duty calls, I say, ‘Yep. Let’s go.’”