He writes that by dying, his wife ‘hasn’t left a void, she’s left a blast crater’

Comedian Patton Oswalt has written a touching essay nearly two weeks after the unexpected death of his wife, crime writer Michelle McNamara.
In the essay posted on time.com, the 47 year old writes that McNamara’s “family is devastated, but can’t help remember all of the times she made them laugh or comforted them.” He adds that by dying, his wife “hasn’t left a void, she’s left a blast crater.”
Oswalt also relates a story about the couple’s seven-year-old daughter, Alice, in the letter. He says five days after her mother’s death, he heard Alice saying, “When your mom dies you’re the best memory of her. Everything you say and do is a memory of her.”
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