COVID-19: Funerals become lonely affairs amid pandemic

In an era of social distancing, families had to honor the dead apart or in small groups

Published: May 28, 2020 14:46 AP and Compiled by Nathaniel Lacsina, Digital Content Editor

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Jersey City, New Jersey: Mohammad Altaf, the generous spirit. Eudiana Smith, the trailblazer. Servius Collin, the caretaker. All were taken by COVID-19. And in death, all were robbed of the funerals they deserved. Image Credit: AP

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As the coronavirus pandemic worked its way toward 100,000 U.S. deaths, a wave of shaken families has had to honor the dead apart and in small groups during an era of social distancing. Image Credit: AP

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Restrictions on gatherings are only now being loosened, and many have been forced to deny themselves the collective show of affection that helps the living cope with grief. Image Credit: AP

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When Smith, a retired mental health professional who died at age 73, was laid to rest at a cemetery this month near her home in Jersey City, New Jersey, mourners watched from their cars as workers interred the casket. Then, only one person at a time was allowed at her graveside. Image Credit: AP

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"My mother was healthy and still full of life," said her daughter, Erika Bermudez. She called her mother a trailblazer, the first in the family to emigrate from Jamaica to the United States. Image Credit: AP

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"I was robbed of the experience of being able to celebrate her life in a manner that would offer some kind of respect for the woman she was," Bermudez said. Bermudez did her best, live-streaming the ceremony to friends and family who couldn't attend. Image Credit: AP

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After Altaf, a car service driver and father of three young children, died in Brooklyn at age 48, two dozen men gathered at Al-Rayaan Muslim Funeral Services on May 17 for the traditional washing and prayer ceremonies. Image Credit: AP

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"My brother, he's got so many good friends, I was expecting maybe too many people would participate in the funeral," said his younger brother, Tariq Aziz. "But because of this kind of situation, it's very risky." Image Credit: AP

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Still, Aziz said, he is grateful to have given his brother his last rites, as the devoutly religious man known among his fellow Pakistanis for generosity and kindness would have wished. Image Credit: AP

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"People who passed away with this kind of disease, the people, they don't want to touch it,'' Aziz said. "We're trying not to think too much. We just keep praying for him that his soul is at peace and rest." Image Credit: AP

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Both New York and New Jersey have, in the past few days, loosened rules that had previously all but shut funerals down by barring groups of people from gathering. Image Credit: AP

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But even the new rules will require subdued funerals. Groups of as many as 10 people are now allowed in New York as long as mourners stay 6 feet apart. Groups of as many as 25 people are allowed in New Jersey if the ceremony is outdoors, or 10 people if indoors. Image Credit: AP

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