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'We love life': Gaza couple celebrate wartime wedding

We're a people that love life, despite death, murders and destruction, says bride's father



Palestinian newly-wed couple Afnan Jibril (2nd left) and Mostafa Shamlakh are surrounded by guests and relatives during their wedding at the UNRWA School in the al Salam neighbourhood of Rafah, southern Gaza Strip, on January 12, 2024, amid continuing battles between Israel and the Hamas.
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Rafah: Surrounded by family and friends, clapping and cheering, Gaza woman Afnan Jibril beams a brilliant smile on her wedding day, determined to celebrate even as war rages.

"We are a people that love life, despite death, murders and destruction," said her father, Mohamed Jibril.

Relatives were gathered on Friday for the wartime wedding in a tiny room at an abandoned school building in the besieged Gaza Strip's southern city of Rafah, near the frontier with Egypt.

Bride Afnan Jibril (C) is escorted by her father (C-R) during her wedding at the UNRWA School in the Al Salam neighbourhood of Rafah.
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The city has suffered daily Israeli bombardment, and the families of both bride and groom are among hundreds of thousands of Palestinians who have fled the fighting further north.

"The usual preparations for marriage are not possible, and traditional ceremonies are not feasible," said the bride's father. "However, clothes are available, although they are scarce and expensive."

Bride Afnan Jibril (C) dances with her father during her wedding at the UNRWA School in the Al Salam neighbourhood of Rafah.
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Afnan, 17, donning a crown of flowers and pristine white dress with stark red embroidery, and her partner Mustafa Shamlakh, 26, want to make the most of their rare chance to celebrate.

They dance and laugh as guests spray white mousse around the room.

But eventually they have to face reality.

"The house where the groom was supposed to live was destroyed," Ayman Shamlakh, the groom's uncle, told AFP.

Bride Afnan Jibril (C), her father (2ndR) and her husband Mostafa Shamlakh (R) are covered with mousse during their wedding.
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As the war went on, both families felt there was nothing to be gained from waiting and they agreed to the marriage.

After the school celebration, the couple head for a ceremony set to take place in a tent.

As they dive into a waiting black SUV, surrounded by a massive crowd of well-wishers, it almost looks like any other wedding day.

"We are all living through the same tragedy," said Ayman Shamlakh. "However, we must continue to live, and life should go on."

Newly-wed couple Afnan Jibril and Mostafa Shamlakh leave in a car after their wedding at the UNRWA School in the Al Salam neighbourhood of Rafah.
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