I am embarrassed to talk about it, but I need help, so I am writing to you. I am 19-years old and since the last couple of months, I have a constant urge to masturbate. I masturbate at least 3 to 4 times in a day. I am always wanting to do it. In fact, my main focus is just that and the pleasure I derive out of it.
Please help me get out of this habit.
I don't want my name to be published. Thanks.
Dr Dhanesh Gopalan, Clinical Psychologist, Openminds Psychiatry, Counseling and Neuroscience Center, answers:
Masturbation is regarded as a healthy, normative behavior in all age groups, which is prevalent especially in adolescents and young adults.
No physically harmful side effects
Some people may feel guilt and associated anxiety about masturbating because of cultural, spiritual or religious beliefs, but the fact is that generally there is no physically harmful side effects even if it is practiced regularly.
On the other hand, some people may develop a sort of addiction to masturbation. When the act or thought of masturbation affect your day to day activities such as cancelling the plans with friends or family, missing other social activities etc may arise a concern for you.
Shifting your attention to other pleasurable activities of life would help you to manage the issue to an extent. Identify any activities like jogging with friends, involving in any other active sports or learning a completely new skills etc will be helpful. If negative feelings still persists, talk to a psychologist and he/she would help you to find a remedy without judging and keeping heights of confidentiality.
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