'They live in 1 bedroom homes but drive Audis': Actress Kalki Koechlin exposes harsh cost of Bollywood fame and keeping up with appearances

Bollywood can be a punishing world for actors trying to keep up and remain visible

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Manjusha Radhakrishnan (Entertainment Editor)
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Kalki Koechlin
Kalki Koechlin

Dubai: Being a Bollywood star might look dazzling from the outside — red carpets, designer gowns, and Insta-perfect airport looks — but behind the glam lies a brutal, unforgiving reality.

If you aren’t a star kid or part of a legacy family or born into privilege, the cost of staying relevant in the Indian film industry can be crippling.

In a rare moment of raw honesty, actor Kalki Koechlin of 'Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani' fame recently revealed just how punishing the industry can be for outsiders trying to keep up.

At a glance:

  • Kalki Koechlin calls Bollywood "punishing" for outsiders

  • Stopped at award shows for arriving in a Swift, not a luxury car

  • Stylists, PR, and red carpet looks can cost a lot

  • Talent isn’t enough — visibility and entourage rule

  • A raw reminder: In Bollywood, selling the dream costs dearly

Snubbed at awards shows?

Speaking on the YouTube channel Aleena Dissects, Kalki recalled her years attending awards shows in her humble budget-friendly Swift car, only to be stopped at the entrance. “They wouldn’t let my car go inside the venue and they would stop it, and then I would have to show my invite and tell them, ‘It’s me,’” she said, with characteristic grace.

Despite the repeated snubs, Kalki never allowed it to shake her sense of self. “It’s just who I am… I don’t want that [lifestyle] because I want to be spontaneous with my life and do things on my own.”

The real price of staying relevant in Bollywood

But let's call pause here. Kalki's searing reflections highlight a larger issue — the industry’s obsession with appearances. From curated airport looks to perfectly timed paparazzi sightings, Bollywood is a game of visibility. And visibility? It doesn’t come cheap.

According to industry insiders, a stylist alone can cost over Rs1 lakh (Dh5000) per red carpet event, not to mention the added expenses of designer rentals, glam squads, PR retainers, luxury cars, and more. While A-listers such as Shah Rukh Khan or Deepika Padukone can afford this machinery, for many strugglers or mid-tier actors, it’s financially suffocating.

A culture of appearances: “They live in tiny homes but drive Audis”

Kalki didn’t hold back. “I know people who live in a tiny 1BHK [Bedrom/Hall/Kitchen] but they have an Audi,” she revealed. “They will come to meetings in an Audi with a driver but they live in a tiny hole.”

The pressure to look the part often drives actors to spend far beyond their means, sacrificing comfort and stability just to create an illusion of success.

Talent is not enough in Bollywood, optics rule

It’s a known but rarely acknowledged truth — acting talent alone isn’t enough in Bollywood. Image sells. Clicks bring contracts. In a system where PR, styling, and social visibility trump craft, many deserving actors fade into oblivion because they can't afford to play the game.

As Kalki bluntly put it, "When you don’t have an entourage there is less chance to be spotted, and it is less likely for 100 people to follow you."

Why Kalki chose Goa over glamour

Unlike her peers, Kalki has chosen a path of freedom over fanfare. “I too spend money,” she said, “but on living in a beautiful house in Goa and flying to and fro to Mumbai. I spend all my money there.”

It’s a conscious decision — to live life on her own terms, even if it means fewer red carpets and no army of stylists following her around.

Kalki’s honesty is a refreshing reality check in an industry that thrives on illusion. Her story is a reminder that Bollywood’s biggest currency isn’t just talent — it’s how well you can sell the fantasy. And for those not born into privilege, the cost of that fantasy can be painfully real.

Manjusha Radhakrishnan
Manjusha Radhakrishnan Entertainment Editor
Manjusha Radhakrishnan has been slaying entertainment news and celebrity interviews in Dubai for 18 years—and she’s just getting started. As Entertainment Editor, she covers Bollywood movie reviews, Hollywood scoops, Pakistani dramas, and world cinema. Red carpets? She’s walked them all—Europe, North America, Macau—covering IIFA (Bollywood Oscars) and Zee Cine Awards like a pro. She’s been on CNN with Becky Anderson dropping Bollywood truth bombs like Salman Khan Black Buck hunting conviction and hosted panels with directors like Bollywood’s Kabir Khan and Indian cricketer Harbhajan Singh. She has also covered film festivals around the globe. Oh, and did we mention she landed the cover of Xpedition Magazine as one of the UAE’s 50 most influential icons? She was also the resident Bollywood guru on Dubai TV’s Insider Arabia and Saudi TV, where she dishes out the latest scoop and celebrity news. Her interview roster reads like a dream guest list—Priyanka Chopra Jonas, Shah Rukh Khan, Robbie Williams, Sean Penn, Deepika Padukone, Alia Bhatt, Joaquin Phoenix, and Morgan Freeman. From breaking celeb news to making stars spill secrets, Manjusha doesn’t just cover entertainment—she owns it while looking like a star herself.

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