Philip made the Queen cry, new book says
British monarch underestimated depth of husband's feelings over her refusal to take his name when they married
London: The Duke of Edinburgh made the Queen cry with his "almost brutal" attitude when she refused to take his surname of Mountbatten, a biography claims.
It says the Queen "failed to see that her actions would have a profound effect on Philip, leading to strains in their marriage".
And it even suggests the ten-year delay between the births of the Princess Royal and the Duke of York may have been the result of Philip's anger.
The irritation he felt over his wife's decision to accept the advice of Winston Churchill and keep the family name Windsor is detailed in Sally Bedell Smith's book, Elizabeth the Queen.
The Duke wanted the Royal Family to be known as the House of Mountbatten when the Queen came to the throne in 1952. He is famously said to have told friends: "I am the only man in the country not allowed to give his name to his children. I'm nothing but an amoeba."
‘Desperately in love'
In an article in the current issue of Vanity Fair, Bedell Smith has written of how in 1960 the Queen, pregnant with the Duke of York, told Harold Macmillan she needed to "revisit the issue of her family name, which had been irritating her husband since she decided in 1952 to use Windsor rather than Mountbatten".
The then Prime Minister wrote in his diary: "The Queen only wishes (properly enough) to do something to please her husband — with whom she is desperately in love.
"What upsets me… is the Prince's almost brutal attitude to the Queen over all this."
In a telegram, Deputy Prime Minister Rab Butler told Macmillan the Queen had "absolutely set her heart" on making a change for Philip's sake. Bedell Smith, whose book is to be published in February, said: "By one account, Butler confided to a friend that Elizabeth had been ‘in tears'."
It was agreed that the Royal Family would continue to be called "the House and Family of Windsor". But the Queen's "de-royalised" descendants, starting with any grandchildren who lacked the designation of "royal highness", would adopt the surname "Mountbatten-Windsor".
But, 13 years later, "Princess Anne... would contravene the policy on her wedding day by signing the marriage register as ‘Mountbatten-Windsor'".
