Boys are weird, true. They play all the time with capes and light sabers and all manner of fantasy. And those are just the dads. The six-year-olds are even worse.
Six-year-olds have a language all their own. It is spoken in a high-pitched squeal, in the voice of too-tight fan belts, of prepubescent violins. To hear a six-year-old, you'd think he'd never become a man. But that's exactly what a six-year-old becomes... one yelp at a time.
"We have a soccer game today?" the little guy squeaks.
"Yes."
"I hope I don't fall on my head."
That should be the least of his worries, for his head is mostly hollow still, a blank canvas. A six-year-old is all hat and no horse, as they say in Texas.
You know how a first-grade boy processes information? He doesn't.
At the risk of getting too technical, here is what happens when new information reaches a six-year-old boy: First, it swirls into his ear canal. About 10 minutes later, when it has cleared the ear canal, the information loops back out of the boy's body. It is like a quarter in a broken soft drink machine, clanging directly to his coin return, bypassing the important parts, never nearing the brain.
When the frustrated parent repeats the information, it enters the little boy's other ear canal, then is routed directly to a clearinghouse in Des Moines, then overseas, usually the poorer parts of Asia.
For the boy, this information pipeline is for his own self-preservation, for there is never a shortage of people — bug-eyed chattering adults like me — just waiting to tell him how to live a better life.
But the boy can't imagine a better life. After all, he is all of six years old.
"I made some new friends today," the little guy yelps.
"Cool. What are their names?"
"I don't know."
See, that's the kind of friends I like. No names. No cell numbers. Real friendship should be as anonymous as possible. You hang out. You play freeze tag. You split.
A six-year-old lives for the moment. He appreciates nothing more than a good cream pie in the schnoz.
And a six-year-old is consistent. He always chews his milkshake straw. He always swallows his gum.
Uphill task
Sometimes, at soccer practice, their shoelaces all untied, school glue in their hair, the six-year-olds all start to talk to me at once, and I just have to hold my head the way I used to during the Bee Gees disco period — the merciless noise of cats having their chests waxed.
To silence the boys, the only coaching tactic that really works is to whisper. This confuses them and makes them think something is mortally wrong. At that point, they circle around as if to watch me die.
"What's wrong with him?" one asks.
"Beats me."
"Kick him."
"No, don't kick him."
"I already kicked him."
"Look, he moved!"
So they gather closer, and I whisper instructions, and then they do exactly as I say for about three seconds, before blasting a teammate's soccer ball all the way to San Diego, which results in an enormous riot. I don't need a whistle, I need a Taser gun.
Only six, the little guy is in his third season of Ayso (American Youth Soccer Organisation) soccer. They wanted to start him in utero but that particular age group was all booked up.
Seriously, if some Americans had their way, they would be starting many childhood activities even before the little tyke is actually born.
— Los Angeles Times News Service
