Reflecting on my life in the UAE for more than a decade, I realise that the true essence of life here is certainly the country’s multiculturalism. However, after a lapse of several years, it is not uncommon to find oneself at a juncture when the realisation dawns that one has made little effort to embrace Emirati culture or even to have made significant progress in learning Arabic, beyond the commonly used Sabah Al Khair, Mabrooq, Insha Allah etc. And one is certainly unable to count even a few good friends from another cultural background, amongst the numerous friends we make over the years in this country.

In the country that successfully brings the world together as a global village year after year, there is definitely no dearth of opportunities to have an interaction with, and gain a deeper understanding of, other communities. Ranging from the workplace, which is usually a pot–pourri of cultures, there are the malls that allow people from various cultures to intermingle freely, the wide choices available in cuisine, the numerous cultural activities organised throughout the year, acclaimed events such as the Dubai International Film Festival, the literature festivals and several other initiatives. The list of avenues is endless.

Yet, we remain content to be confined to the little islands of our own communities, preferring to mingle with people of our own ilk and make little effort to move outside our comfort zones. Most of us show no inclination to understand another culture, primarily due to the fast-paced lifestyle and also there is the mindset that we are here only to make money and that our life here is transitory. However, forging meaningful relationships outside our own communities could begin with simple steps such as getting to know our neighbours better or making friends with people from other communities at the workplace and gaining glimpses about their cultural backgrounds. I recall how all Indian colleagues in office had organised an informal gathering for Diwali, the Indian festival of lights, dressing up traditionally and distributing sweets. The highlight was a short introduction to the celebration and the customs relating to it. These initiatives, which are a part of the office culture in many companies here, are helpful to bridge gaps and create better bonding among colleagues, leading to greater synergies.

Looking down with disdain on an unfamiliar culture, custom or even a religious faith often arises from our lack of deeper understanding about them. We could also help avoid some unfortunate incidents that arise from such lack of information. I recall an embarrassing incident a few years ago wherein an elderly Indian gentleman was denied entry into the Metro due to his traditional attire. Yet, as a part of the society we live in, we have all come across personal experiences that seem to transcend cultural barriers, forcing us to reconsider the misconceptions we have about other cultures. I cannot forget the kind face of the British gentleman whom I had approached when faced with trouble starting my car after a swimming lesson. He took the trouble to return with the equipment needed to rev up the engine and spent some time to help start it, despite being a complete stranger. Also, I can still recall the bright smile of the young Emirati woman who stopped to offer help when I had met with a minor accident, several years ago.

Certainly more articles, blogs and other written material that explain and help celebrate the differences would also be beneficial in helping us improve our cross–cultural intelligence. I remember stumbling upon a helpful article on social media, explaining clearly the different styles of wearing the Arab headgear and the significance of each. Such information, compiled to specifically educate and inform can prove very insightful.

It is incumbent upon each one of us to take small steps towards building a more cohesive mosaic of society. This will surely create a fresh perspective, help us adapt and relate better with each other and also clear several misconceptions arising from a lack of awareness. Also, it would be good for our children to understand differences in culture. This would give them a head start when it comes to preparing them to become global citizens. The onus is on us to help celebrate our differences and blend our uniqueness in ways that help create the flavour that is distinct to the UAE.

Fyna Ashwath is a writer based in Dubai.