The art of expression

Every artistic squiggle, splotch of colour or impulsive outline is an attempt to communicate, even if it looks carelessly done.

"A child speaks through his artwork, and parents must pay attention," says Ayesha Saeed Husaini, educational psychologist and director of Manzil and part-time consultant at Synergy Integrated Medical Centre, Dubai.

"In fact, psychologists often use a child's artwork as assessment and therapeutic tools. A disturbed child may cry for help through his drawings.

"Children express their desires and needs through art and crafts. If you notice a persistent disturbing theme in your child's creative work, seek professional help," she says.

This journey from childish scribbles to discernible works of art helps a child express his changing perceptions. Should this journey be shackled by practical or disciplinary rules?

"On an intuitive level, adults should allow freedom. However, disciplinary and creative pointers should be provided," says Husaini.

Creative pointers include use of different materials and colours, whereas disciplinary pointers should lean towards practical aspects.

For instance, if your son makes a mess when building his toy train or your daughter spills paint on her clothes, refrain from flaring your nostrils in anger.

Simply set the rules.

"Insist that he or she cleans up afterwards," she advises.
Parents must ensure art material doesn't contain hazardous stuff.

"Learn all you can about the materials. Look for safer alternatives and do not try anything new until you have looked into the potential hazards," she says.

Once you have the basics covered, enjoy bonding with your child over a creative project. "When you participate in an activity your child enjoys, he will associate you with a positive environment," she says.