ELZACH, Germany: They fled Iraq just ahead of a Daesh group onslaught in which thousands of their fellow Yazidis were enslaved or slaughtered. Months as refugees on the fringes of Turkish society, a nearly fatal trip across the Aegean and a long trek through the Balkans and Austria north to Germany came next.
Now, there finally is calm for the six members of the Qasu family, tranquillity they only could dream of during their year-long odyssey.
Bessi Qasu, husband Samir, daughters Delphine and Dunia and sons Dilshad and Dildar share a small apartment in the serene town of Elzach, nestled in the rolling hills of the Black Forest in southwestern Germany.
“Not so long ago we were between life and death, but now we are a family in a home in a safe and great country,” says Samir, 46, who ran a convenience store before his family fled in August 2014 as Daesh fighters closed in on the city of Sinjar in northern Iraq.
Germany opened its borders to hundreds of thousands of asylum seekers like the Qasus last year. As they have settled around the country, it has led to friction at times with local residents, particularly in the eastern regions of the country.
No discrimination
But members of the Qasu family say they have felt none of that.
“Nobody discriminates against us. We don’t feel different. Even my German friends tell me that now ‘You’re a German,’” 18-year-old Dilshad says.
His father adds that they have done their best to fit in. “We are their guests, and we have to respect their culture and traditions,” Samir says.
To that end, Samir and Bessi are taking daily “integration” classes to learn the German language and culture, after which they hope to find jobs. Dunia, 14, attends a local secondary school and Dildar, 11, is in elementary school and plays on the local youth soccer team.
Dilshad and Delphine, 19, are waiting to start classes at the end of September. When the family arrived in Germany on December 9, they lived in a temporary facility in Heidelberg.
They resettled in Elzach after about three months. Now granted asylum, they have been given a two-room apartment that is paid for by Germany along with the cost of utilities. In addition, they receive about €1,900 (Dh7,806; $2,125) a month for food and other necessities, which they say is more than enough.
At least twice a day, they spread a big blanket on the floor of their apartment and eat meals while joking, discussing their progress learning German and talking about the future that once seemed so grim.
“I am happy to see my children safe and in schools, and a bright future waiting them,” Bessi says.
Samir says he talks about the old days with an Iraqi neighbour, but the children rarely mention their previous life or the journey that led them to Elzach.
“Please, let’s not bring up these tough memories,” Delphine says.
Career in medicine
Delphine hopes to eventually become a doctor, while Dildar nurses dreams of playing professional soccer. Like many young teenagers, Dunia isn’t quite sure.
She’d like to be a famous artist and is hedging her bets, learning both how to dance and to play the keyboard.
Dilshad just wants to bring in wages to provide for his family, helping his parents like they have helped him.
“Now I know I will have a good future,” the young man says. “The only future for us in Iraq was death.”
