Hindu family in UAE observes Ramadan fast for 14 years

Members of Abu Dhabi family say it’s like an inner call

  • By Anjana Sankar, Senior Reporter
  • Published: 21:00 July 24, 2013
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  • The family that fasts together: Vakkom Jayalal his mother Soudamini and wife Yamuna find Ramadan fasting an enriching experience
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Dubai A Hindu family in Abu Dhabi has been fasting this Ramadan. And not for the first time. They have been doing it for 14 years.

“We cannot imagine a Ramadan without fasting. It is like an inner call,” said Indian expat Vakkam Jayalal, 54, who along with his wife Yamuna, 43, and two grown-up children observe fast throughout Ramadan.

A UAE resident for 32 years, Jayalal, hails from Kerala and works as a coordinator at a civil consultant firm. He said he started fasting 21 years ago when he lived with a Muslim family in Abu Dhabi.

“I was the only non-Muslim in the house. So I decided to fast as well. It was a great experience. It has been over two decades since then, and not a Ramadan has passed when I have not observed fasting,” said the active community worker and art enthusiast.

When Jayalal’s wife joined him 16 years ago, Ramadan fasting became a family affair. “Inspired by my husband, I also started fasting. It was tough in the beginning, but eventually it turned out to be great learning experience,” said Yamuna, a housewife.

The couple’s two children, Aishwarya, 17, and Rahul, 21, have been fasting since they were eight and 10.

“I never forced them to fast. They started it on their own as they were fascinated by its concept. It has been several years, but they have never missed a fast. Whether they are in the UAE or abroad, they always observe Ramadan as a month of fasting.”

Aishwarya, who is in Grade 12 in Kerala, says she is the only non-Muslim girl in her school who observes a fast. Her brother Rahul, who has just graduated from a private college in Abu Dhabi, is also fasting.

The devotion and spiritual strength of the family has inspired even Jayalal’s 82-year-old mother who is visiting the UAE. She successfully fasted for two days, but was discouraged from fasting for the entire month for health reasons.

Many benefits

The family says they benefit both physically and mentally. “It is a great way of self-discipline. Fasting helps us shed extra weight and also discipline the mind,” said Jayalal.

The Jayalal family are not alone. There are many non-Muslims in the UAE who take on the month-long exercise in spiritual cleansing and devotion every year. While some are inspired by the concept, other observe the Ramadan fast to express solidarity with their Muslim brethren.

Rajendran Parameshwaran, 48, another Indian expatriate in Abu Dhabi, says it is the 14th year he is fasting during Ramadan.

“This one month is the time to cleanse our mind and body by exercising self-restraint. It also helps you understand the value of food and reflect on the plight of the poor who don’t get even one meal a day,” he said.

Parameshwaran, who works for an estimation company, started fasting in solidarity with his Muslim roommates.

“There were 12 of us and I was the only non-Muslim. When it was Ramadan I also woke up with them, ate food and observed fasting. I did not want to eat when my friends were fasting,” said Parameshwaran, who is married with two children.

Though he and others moved out, he continued with the tradition. “My blood pressure comes to normal when I am fasting. It is also invigorating for the mind and body provided you do not overeat after when you end the fast,” he said.

admiration from all

Parameshwaran’s Ramadan fasting elicits curiosity and admiration from his friends and colleagues.

“Now they all know that I fast during Ramadan. My family in India ask me two days before Ramadan whether I am fasting. The answer is an obvious Yes!”

Many other non-Muslims inspired by their friends’ commitment and devotion also observe the fast for a day or days to show respect for the religion.

“I see even young children and elderly people observe fast in this hot weather. If they can abstain from eating or drinking for 15 hours, why can’t I?” said Emilie Rodrigus, a Filipino secretary in Abu Dhabi.

“I fast a day or two every year during Ramadan just to show my respect to people who are fasting.”

Comments (8)

How have you benefitted from fasting?
  1. Added 12:07 July 25, 2013

    Good to hear this News. This is an example of Religious Harmony.

    M.ABDUL RASACK, DUBAI, United Arab Emirates

  2. Added 11:57 July 25, 2013

    May Allah (swt) guide them to the straight path. Ameen!

    Yusra, Dubai, United Arab Emirates

  3. Added 11:52 July 25, 2013

    Its so nice to read this article.Thanks to all my non muslim brothers who has shown the respect to this holy month and expressing solidarity by fasting with us.

    Mohd Mujahed, Dubai, United Arab Emirates

  4. Added 11:51 July 25, 2013

    Congratulation May God give you and your family long and happy life

    A.Waheed Poonawala, Karachi, Pakistan

  5. Added 11:08 July 25, 2013

    Great by reading this news. Masha Allah. May Allah bestow them & us Idayath. May Allah Bestow all of us the Jannah(Heaven). May Allah protect all of us from hell torment. Ameen.

    Ibrahim, Mangalore, Dubai, India

  6. Added 10:06 July 25, 2013

    it s really amazing

    Sohail, dubai, India

  7. Added 23:48 July 24, 2013

    I think its time for this family to look deeper into the religion of Islam. We all muslims fast only for the sake of Allah.

    Nomi, London, United Kingdom

  8. Added 23:21 July 24, 2013

    I pray to Allah the Almighty to guide you and your family to the righteous path and may He Bless you all to understand the essence of Islam as well.

    Syed, Sharjah, United Arab Emirates

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