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On International Woman's Day: Issues she faces

On International Woman's Day we look at gender equality, post-modern feminism and the right to choice

  • By Sanya Nayeem, Deputy Readers Editor
  • Published: 00:00 March 8, 2010
  • Gulf News

  • Image Credit: Supplied
  • The women victims need to be educated through seminars and programmes, and also have a back-up system or a helpline that they can count on, Grace Fernandes says.
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One watches a clock in an office cubicle in Dubai, counting down to when she will finally hold her four-month-old.

Another follows the trail of a sinking sun across vast South African plains, bringing water to a home that is still kilometres away.

A third's bruised arm hides under baggy sleeves as she stumbles into a London Tube — she is leaving her husband, again.

The world's women survive vastly different lives, but their stories are of endurance, grit and grace.

March 8 marks International Women's Day — yet just how much has changed since 7,000 Parisian women marched to Versailles in 1789, chanting "liberty, equality, fraternity"?

According to the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA), women currently constitute over two-thirds of the illiterate adult population worldwide. They also represent 70 per cent of the planet's poor — a reality that became more severe after the recent global economic crisis.

When the going got tough, women were the first to be fired. About 22 million were expected to have lost their jobs in 2009, according to the United Nations Development Fund for Women (Unifem).

Office ostracism

But sometimes, walking in through the office door is tougher than having to walk out — the corporate world is a working woman's battlefield.

In a gulfnews.com poll, 34 per cent of voters said financial insecurity was the key issue facing women today, while 28 per cent thought it was gender discrimination. Grace Fernandes, an administration executive working in Dubai, found both factors playing a role in the workplace.

She said: "Recently, for no fault of mine, I was asked to apologise to a CEO of another company. He was taking advantage of his position and I refused to bow down to pressure. This is a common situation in the workplace — some male chauvinists get a kick out of harassing gullible women."

For such victims, Fernandes has some suggestions: "They need to be educated through seminars and programmes, and also have a back-up system or a helpline that they can count on."

Empowerment is essential, especially as across businesses worldwide, women are paid 17 per cent less than men for the same work.

According to Unifem, even as women perform 66 per cent of the world's work and produce 50 per cent of the food, they earn only 10 per cent of the income and own one per cent of the property.

Is this a bad deal?

For Dr Arpitha Reddy, founder of a web portal dedicated to women — dubaimoms.com, the figures reflect an age-old norm.

She said: "[These] challenges are not new to womankind. But though women today are well-equipped to meet social and financial pressures, they are more stressed out and depressed than ever."

Women who want to be "financially independent and professionally competitive" often have to battle rigid societal rules, according to Dr Reddy. The Abu Dhabi resident said: "Irrespective of socio-economic independence, there are certain expectations from women that haven't changed with time. The pressure to get married, have children and nurture a domestic life continues to exist."

Tough choices

Those who choose to do both often have to be prepared to work twice as hard.

In a survey of 800 business executives by a US-based human resource management firm, 76 per cent of women said it was challenging to return to work as new mothers.

But for Norma Lim, who works as a consultant in a hospital in Dubai, the decision was anything but difficult.

The Filipina expatriate said: "I love my job — it is for my personal growth and fulfilment. I didn't think it was necessary to give it up just because I had a child."

For others, however, the challenge often proves too complex.

In Arab states, only 28 per cent of women participate in the workforce.

This is despite the fact that the adult literacy rate for females in the UAE is currently at 91 per cent, according to the 2010 Education for All Global Monitoring Report.

As long as they are in control of their lives and like what they are doing, the decisions women make are personal, Lim said.

"All women, no matter where they're from, need support from loved ones in what they are doing. That's all."

How crucial is the role of the mother in advancing the status of women? Do you see improvement in the status of women in the Middle East?

Comments (7)

  1. Added 22:06 March 8, 2010

    i appologise if i come across as gender bias or a sexist. and clarify... that i am not! if anything, i advocate gender equality and women's rights! however, i cannot support something that is contadicting nature. the article is not clear with whose quote is this... ""All women, no matter where they're from, need support from loved ones in what they are doing. That's all." assuming this is the voice of the writer and the others on the team, i address to all those who are for the quote, that we support the women (and the girls and the children and the elders of the society even), so long as we are not contradicting nature. if i could mother a child, i would have no issues with the concept at all. either this, or we acknowledge and accept (and cease claiming) that motherhood is not a full time job. as it is, i dont have issues with the concept of women in the workforce, because fatherhood is not for me. i find parenting a MAJOR responsibility, that doesnt end even after the parent dies. if the child is not brought up in right manner, than the father in particular and the parents and grand parents in general are also responsible. and since parenting is not for me, as a member of the society, i try to do my part in educating/training the youth and hope that my efforts will have some good from it. but if not, than, atleast there is no ill from it. coming to the subject, it is nice to have woman/women in the offices/shops/malls/aircraft... etc. i mean, it keeps us checked. i for one, would have been a real lousy dresser, had it not been for the women around. and maybe, even, i would have been extremely explicit about my thoughts... with abuses flying left, right and center... in every sentence that i conclude. but these things are checked, with the presence of the children and women in the place. my point is... while there is no denying that women can do everything (with exceptions) that men do, men too can master everything women are doing (with nature restricted expections, of course) and i dont need to cite examples. we are all well aware of these. we are supposed to be companions to each other. happy woman's day to all the women of the world. god bless

    Mahdi Raza, Dubai, United Arab Emirates

  2. Added 21:07 March 8, 2010

    The affairs of Women are human problems. They exceed the spheres of traditional worries, converting themselves in main topics, and not secondary topics. They are affairs of international development. The situation of women is a barometer of the political and economic health of our nations.

    Maria Gloria, Asuncion, Paraguay

  3. Added 16:58 March 8, 2010

    There is lot of racism faced by men from women. I think Women are the biggest racist in this world. Men are digging their own grave by agreeing to more freedom for women. Women need love and respect.

    Anonymous, Toronto, Canada

  4. Added 16:39 March 8, 2010

    Congrats Women!. Why women make loud noises when it comes to the issue of Women? Why you need protection when you are already protected. (Today UAE and other some part of the World empowering women power ) You learned to wear mens shoes and walk and also his life and still you need men in your life? you know how to put men into dilemma if necessary and also know to bias when it come to you personally. You teach to the whole world regarding Love but you have no time for your own love. You talk about modesty and yet lost the creativity. You work hard for the family you say but grabbing mens bread and wine teasing him from far away (for his head). Yet you say I need protection and care from whom congeniality.

    Steve, Sharjah, United Arab Emirates

  5. Added 13:31 March 8, 2010

    Woman was taken out of man; not out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled underfoot; but out of his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved

    Clevan Roshan Pinto, Dubai, United Arab Emirates

  6. Added 12:31 March 8, 2010

    Its right and honestly true that today women are very much into work force. If we have women who work to support their families some women also work because they want their identy , their dignity and want to preserve their honour for life long. In U.A.E women are respected in a true sense they are given a space to succeed whether its education, qualification, profession or family. Keeping worse aside; women are surviving the discrimination in the work place it means women are much more potentially and mentally strong then any men would be.

    Almas Mohammad Shafiq, Sharjah, United Arab Emirates

  7. Added 09:31 March 8, 2010

    Office ostracism is very true especially when working with Indian men. They carry their village stigmas over here and harass women.

    Jane, Dubai, United Arab Emirates

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