The latest outrage emanating from the Iranian government over Saudi Arabia’s decision to execute the Saudi Shiite cleric, Nimr Al Nimr, and the burning of the Saudi Embassy and the Consulate in Iran, prove it has not changed its revolutionary approach and it has not matured into a respectable government.

The recent burning of the Saudi Embassy reminds us of the attack on the US Embassy in Tehran in 1979. It is as if history is static and nothing has changed. Its attitude remains the same and it still rules through intimidation. The region has become unstable and has been engulfed by sectarianism and violence since the Khomeini revolution in 1979. The question now is; when should diplomatic ties be re-established with this irresponsible regime?

The outrage and demonstrations stirred up by Iran after the execution of Al Nimr are ridiculous and ironic. Iran has the highest rate of executions in the region, according to the latest Amnesty International report, and it does not have the right to criticise Saudi Arabia.

Saudi Arabia’s Deputy Crown Prince Mohammad Bin Salman, who is also the country’s Defence Minister, expressed his surprise over the reaction in an interview with The Economist. “A Saudi citizen commits a crime in Saudi Arabia, and a decision is made on the case by a Saudi court; what does Iran have to do with it? If this proves anything, it’s that Iran is keen on extending its influence over other countries in the region.”

Saudi Arabia never interferes in Iran’s internal affairs regardless of the thousands they execute, many of whom are Sunnis. Many had hoped that Iran’s conduct would be much better after the reformer, Hassan Rouhani, came to power as president, taking over from the hardliner, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad. But in fact nothing has changed; on the contrary things have worsened. It is not enough that the embassy and consulate were burned, but a street was named after Al Nimr. Such actions remind us of when one of Tehran’s streets was named Khalid Islambouli, the terrorist who assassinated Anwar Sadat, the third president of Egypt, in 1981.

This aggressive meddling illustrates that Iran’s hardliners, including the supreme leader, have agreed on the nuclear deal only to use the money to serve their programme of expansion in the region. Everything that is happening, from their domination of the region to their attack on the Saudi Embassy, indicate that more interventions are on the horizon and there is no distinction between Iran’s hardliners and its reformers.

The West and mainly the US are obviously using the nuclear deal to change the balance of power in the region by empowering Iran to police it. This is reflected in global as well as American media. It is really puzzling that the media focuses on the outrage of Iran over the execution of Al Nimr but does not question why Iran is interfering in the internal matters of another country. There were 47 terrorists executed alongside Al Nimr, but there is no mention of them in the media. The sole focus on him specifically is not only strange, but serves to fan the flames of sectarianism in the region.

The Obama administration’s attitude has been awkward since the beginning of the uprising in the region. For example, even though Obama abandoned the Iranian people in their Green Revolution in 2009 because he did not want to “meddle in Iran’s internal affairs”, he meddled in Egyptian internal affairs in 2011. He called then president Hosni Mubarak, a US ally for 30 years, and told him that reform and change had to begin “now”, which is the exact opposite of his stance towards the Iranian regime.

This abandonment of Arab allies in such a humiliating manner and at the same time the support to the Islamists at the expense of liberals, minorities, women and the youth have shaken the trust of those Arab leaders and people towards the US. The Obama administration is sending confused signals to Arab countries. Some of them indicate that the US is working against them while others suggest it is withdrawing from the region and weakening its ties there.

The US and the West, before encouraging Saudi Arabia and other Arab countries to make peace with Iran, have to stop Iran from interfering in Arab countries’ internal issues. They must also respect diplomatic missions. It is abundantly clear that this revolutionary regime does not want to mature into a respectable government respecting other countries’ sovereignty. It is insisting on exporting its revolution to neighbouring countries and it is very keen to dominate the region. It has destabilised the region by supporting militias and insurgent groups in Arab countries. Instability is promoted by this regime even during the Haj through politicising it and spreading chaos. This regime exploits every opportunity to criticise Saudi Arabia in its management of the Haj, while it fails to manage its own diplomatic missions. As a result, a simple apology to Saudi Arabia will not solve these tensions because the problem is systemic.

The return of diplomatic ties should be made on several conditions. The Iranian regime must stop interfering with other Arab countries’ domestic affairs. This can be achieved by signing a treaty that states that all funding and support of militias, such as Hezbollah, and insurgent groups in Arab countries, must cease immediately. Once the regime agrees to these conditions then we can start to talk about resuming diplomatic ties. Re-establishing ties without such pre-conditions would be seen naive at best.

Najat Al Saied is a Saudi academic and a graduate in media studies from the University of Westminster, UK. Her PhD thesis is Development Initiatives in Programming on Privately-Owned Arab Satellite Television and their Reception among Disadvantaged Saudi Women. She is an assistant professor at Zayed University in Dubai.