Tamweel Tower inferno leaves children traumatisedDoctor urges parents to be available for their children when they are afraidImage Credit: Pankaj Sharma/Gulf NewsFalling, flaming debris caused most of the balconies to catchfire in the Tamweel Tower at JLT where a massive fire brokeout in the early hours last weekPublished: 21:30 November 26, 2012 01 By Janice Ponce de Leon, Staff Reporter SMALLMEDIUMLARGEDubai: Some parents of children who witnessed the massive fire that ripped through the Tamweel Tower in Jumeirah Lakes Towers last week have expressed concerns that their children were reliving the traumatic event.“[Three] days back, the fire alarm in the hotel where we were staying went off. The kids started getting the chills; they were very scared. They asked what would happen next. Or if our room would be on fire again,” Joseph Joseph, a Singaporean expatriate and father-of-three, said.Another father, who earlier spoke to Gulf News on condition of anonymity, said his children would wake up from nightmares of their hotel room catching fire at least three times in the night.“On the first night, my son tried to be brave. But he started crying the next day looking for his toys and school things,” Homer Ocsio, father of a seven-year-old and who lived on the eighth floor of the tower, told Gulf News.These responses characterise Acute Stress Disorder (ASD) which is a significant anxiety disorder that can develop after exposure to any event that results in psychological trauma, according to Dr Raymond Hamden, clinical and forensic psychologist at the Human Relations Institute.People who develop ASD could suffer from depression, anxiety, hyper vigilance, exaggerated startle response, invasive thoughts, among others.These are normal human reactions, wherein children are the most vulnerable sub-group. Experts recommend parents to be there for their children during these times.“Parents need to be available to comfort the children consistently. It would be good if they could talk to the children about the experience,” Dr Hamden said.Related Links More questions than answers for fire victimsFlammable high-rise panels bannedTraumatised residents not keen to returnBuildings or death traps?Support grows for JLT fire victimsTamweel Tower residents to get hotel roomsTamweel Tower residents: Exit plan helpsFresh calls for cladding clarityJumeirah Lakes Towers fire victims seek answers Children may feel insecure and may ask a lot of questions which parents should answer.“Don’t give [them] too much information, but don’t hide information either. Assure them that they are in a safe place,” Dr Mohammad Tahir, general, adult and child psychiatrist at Health Call, said.Parents may encourage their children to draw what they’re feeling to help them in their way to recovery, Dr Tahir said.If symptoms persist, experts advise parents to seek professional help to avoid further complications in the long run.Expand Comments1 CommentShowNewest FirstOldest FirstMost RatedLowest RatedFathima rishanaNov 27, 2012 10:27I don't think only the kids would have got traumatised, even the adults too. Whenever such things happen, is there any counselling given either at hospitals or at schools free, at least for kids, to help them cope? It is a must. There should be safety measures taught, how to escape in times likethis, what should be done, etc. There should be some fire drills done, at least how to use the fire extinguisher in the houses.Fathima rishana Nov 27, 2012 10:27I don't think only the kids would have got traumatised, even the adults too. Whenever such things happen, is there any counselling given either at hospitals or at schools free, at least for kids, to help them cope? It is a must. There should be safety measures taught, how to escape in times likethis, what should be done, etc. There should be some fire drills done, at least how to use the fire extinguisher in the houses.