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The Indian family that has been living here for four generations

This Indian family can boast a presence spanning four generations - and counting - in the UAE. Meet the Kisanis

  • By Sharmila Dhal, Senior Reporter, XPRESS
  • Published: 00:00 December 1, 2011
  • XPRESS

Members of the Kisani family
  • Image Credit: Zarina Fernandes/XPRESS
  • Sitting, from left: Poonam, Lata, Kusum, Damayanthi, Mala, Deepa and Sunita. Standing, from left: Pravin, Raju, Kamlesh and Manoj. They are among the 60-plus members in the Kisani household.

Dubai: In the early 1900s, Lalchand Kisani and Hiranand Virumal Kisani, two Sindhi brothers from Karachi in then undivided India, came to Ajman to trade in pearls. Years later, they went back to their homeland. But the four sons of Hiranand were destined to be in the UAE - each came on a separate calling after the Indo-Pakistan partition in 1947.

One of the four, Ladaram, started his own foodstuff business, but the other three took up jobs: Devkishan at the British Bank Middle East (now HSBC), Chunilal at the African + Eastern Company and Ram at Standard Chartered Bank.

Fast forward to 2011. The Kisanis have branched out so wide they could well be one of the largest expat families in the UAE today. And when XPRESS went scouting for people who had spent 40 or more years in the country, there was a pick of at least 11 names from among the 60-plus members in the Kisani household.

"Yes, we are quite a few of us here," says Damayanthi, 69, wife of the late Ram and eldest surviving family member.

Thursday thrills

"When I first came in 1965, we lived in Al Ain and it would take us six hours to reach Dubai by road. But the trip was a must every Thursday as my husband's brothers were here. Shopping and watching a movie at the Indian Association was part of the deal," she recalls. "Often, by the time we got back, it would be well over midnight which meant we could not get past the Al Ain checkpost. So we would sleep in the desert and reach home in the morning."

Damayanthi has three married children in Dubai, two of whom have crossed 40. The eldest, Manoj, runs a computer business besides other family concerns. He talks of how he was just four when the first National Day was celebrated in Al Ain. "I remember the lights on the streets and the main roundabout. There was so much gaiety. I have been part of it for so long I feel integrated with the local culture."

"We've been marking the UAE National Day in our own way for many years," says Manoj's sister Deepa, 42, holding up a pair of beaded wrist bands in the form of a UAE flag. There are hairbands and camels too. "Mum has been making these for us and now for our children every National Day."

Each of the veteran Kisanis has a tale to tell. Businessman Raju, 54, says, "I was among the first batch of students of the Indian High School which marked its golden jubilee last year."

He is the son of Devkishan. His sisters Mala, 53, and Sunita, 46, and brother Pravin, 44, have all been in Dubai for over four decades. "In fact Pravin was delivered by a midwife in Dubai and got his birth certificate from the British embassy," says Sunita.

The siblings say they will never go back to India. "There is nothing for us there. This is our home as we have our entire family and property investments here," adds Pravin.

"I wish people like us get citizenship," says Mala.

The sentiment is echoed by others as well. "It would be nice if we get something like a permanent residency card," says Ladaram's son Kamlesh, 45, who has a logistics business.

He and his sister Poonam, 54, recall how their father was in the infamous ship that sank off the coast of Dubai in 1973. "I was 16 then and we used to live in front of the sea. People were being brought to the shore in small boats and my father, thankfully, survived."

Kusum, 63, and Lata, 57, daughters of Chuni Lal, have been here longer. They cannot but compare the gold prices today to what they were at one time. "Sixty rupees for one tola [11.663gms] in the Sixties," says Kusum. "I remember paying 50 fils for a box of sweet water and 25 fils for ordinary water which the rafiqs [water boys] would carry from Jumeirah to Bur Dubai," says Lata.

Comments (11)

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  1. Added 00:00 December 2, 2011

    My dad came to UAE in 1969 on British visa before the UAE was formed. He is one of those who was part of UAE when it was being built and developed. All my siblings were born in UAE. I am happy that UAE is celebrating its 40th year of independence, but sad at the same time because until today my parents and siblings still have to apply for the UAE visa to stay in UAE.

    Shahbaz, ATL, United States

  2. Added 22:50 December 1, 2011

    As a Zanzibari, give our thanks & congratulations on 40 years of Union of spirit to the Rulers. Me and my parents have stayed for 40 years in Dubai. We pray to Allah to give all the Rulers long life and good health.

    Anonymous, Dubai, Tanzania, United Republic Of

  3. Added 21:40 December 1, 2011

    Why couldn't they not obtain UAE nationality? I thought anyone living in the Trucial States would qualify for the UAE Nationality when it became the UAE?

    Khaled Al Farsani, Dubai, United Arab Emirates

  4. Added 20:34 December 1, 2011

    My family has been here for that long too, and I've been born and raised here. This is home, I speak the language, the culture is my own.. and im lost when i visit "home" - India. I speak the language, but cant read of write as i learnt Arabic. Im a stranger in my own people. My family cant stay there for more than a week, we have no assets there. And we are still renewing visas here as we are unwanted. I dont ask for a citizenship, can we have a permanent residency or long term visa? 5 years? This is home, our global village. Do the authorities really not see us?

    Anonymous, Dubai, United Arab Emirates

  5. Added 17:05 December 1, 2011

    Good to hear... but my question: why is this family still not given UAE citizenship....

    Dhawaris, Sharjah, United Arab Emirates

  6. Added 14:41 December 1, 2011

    I have lived all my life in UAE. My parents have been living here for more than 40 years.This is home for us and my family's 3rd generation (our kids)

    Anonymous, Dubai, United Arab Emirates

  7. Added 13:56 December 1, 2011

    There are many other families also living in the UAE for more than four decades and they too have similar tales to tell.

    Razul, Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

  8. Added 11:48 December 1, 2011

    My parents have been there from the 70's as well and it would be nice if the UAE recognises and acknowledges what people like these have contributed to the growth of the country.

    DAvid, Dubai, Australia

  9. Added 11:47 December 1, 2011

    Well, my family too completed exactly 40 years this December in the UAE. So we are also celebrating our 40 years in the UAE!

    farrukh, abu dhabi, United Arab Emirates

  10. Added 08:55 December 1, 2011

    It's really nice to finally read about people who have been in the UAE for over decades and generations. My parents have been in the UAE for over 40 years and I share a similar history. Thank you XPRESS for writing about people like us.

    Anonymous, New York, United States

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